Growing up, I discovered Madonna by playing an American Idol
video game where my character had to sing “Like a Prayer”. I knew all the words
to the song after a while, but I had no idea who sang it. Later, my mom told me
it was Madonna, someone who she later described as “weird before Lady Gaga was
weird.” I knew about her infamous kiss with Britney Spears and that she had a
song called “Like a Virgin.” My impression of Madonna was that she used to be a
pop star that was ‘out there’ but now she’s trying too hard to stay
relevant. After seeing Madonna: Truth or
Dare, my opinions changed a little bit.
For the first half of the film, I cringed at almost every
scene. Sorry if I sound like a sixty year old, but her obscene dance moves, her
narcissistic behavior and her language turned me off. Not that I have never
seen any of that before, but coming from her made her just sound like a Diva. I
ruled her out as completely crazy. However once the documentary went on, I
finally got her. I understood her. Madonna was and is real. She’s herself.
Although she is very ‘out there’ and unconventional, she has integrity,
artistic ambition, and isn’t afraid to stand up for what she believes in. She
doesn’t give a fuck about what people
think, and although at first it can be off putting, it’s actually quite
admirable. She does what she wants, when she wants, and is not fake, which is a
rare quality in Hollywood.
Last night during Drake’s set at Coachella, Drake brought
Madonna out to sing a song. At the end of her song, she made out with him. He
was taken aback, as we all were, and she walked off the stage saying “I’m
Madonna, bitch.” If this had happened before I saw the documentary, I would
have thought who is this grandma kissing
drake? Is she trying to stay relevant? While those thoughts are somewhat
valid, post-documentary viewing I have a new understanding. At 31 and 56,
Madonna is still the same. She doesn’t care what anyone thinks and isn’t going
to let her age get in the way of staying wild. When I saw the kiss I cracked up
because I understand her. She’s still the same Madonna who simulated
masturbation on stage, still the same Madonna who has no filter, and still the
same Madonna who was weird before weird was cool. She refuses to let her age
define her and if it’s something she is comfortable with, why can’t we be comfortable
with it too? Stay crazy, Madonna.